A nine-year-old girl was spending time with her grandparents in Kansas. The grandfather was away, so she was sleeping with her grandmother. Suddenly, she awoke in the middle of the night to see her elderly grandmother sitting up in bed and a man standing over her, dripping with rain and with a wooden club in his hand, ready to strike. The little girl felt a scream rising, and then her grandmother touched her hand and she felt a flood of calm wash over her. The grandmother said to the man, “I am glad you found our house. You’ve come to the right place. You are welcome here. It is a bad night to be out. You are cold, wet, and hungry. Take the firewood you have there and go stir up the kitchen stove. Let me put some clothes on, and I will find you some dry clothes, fix you a good hot meal, and make a place for you to sleep behind the stove where it is good and warm.” She said no more but waited calmly. After a long pause, the man lowered the club and said, “I won’t hurt you.” She then met him in the kitchen and cooked him a meal, gave him the dry clothes, and made a bed up for him behind the stove. The grandmother then went back to her bed and she and her granddaughter went back to sleep. They awoke in the morning to find the man gone.
At about 10 A.M., the police arrived with a canine unit that had followed the man’s scent to the house. They were shocked to find the grandmother and granddaughter still alive. The man was a psychopathic murderer who had escaped from prison the night before and had brutally slaughtered the family who were the nearest neighbors.
This amazing grandmother had created so much emotional bonding with the intruder that he could not kill her. She had treated him with a kindness and respect that had disarmed him both literally and figuratively. The fact is people do not kill people; they kill things or objects.
– Hostage at the Table by George Kohlrieser
A situation with my passport was the reason for my spontaneous weekend trip to Malaysia. I needed to go Kuala Lumpur to get a visa and with more excursions and final exams in the coming weeks, I decided it would best for me to go right away while I still had free time on my hands. So I booked a plane ticket midweek and left as
soon as I got out of class on Friday. The ride to Bangkok was long, about 9 hours but still cheaper and faster than the train. I arrived in Bangkok around 5:00am the next day. Half asleep, hungry, and disoriented, I managed to plow my way through tuk-tuk drivers to find the metered taxis. I’ve become numb to the “where you go!?” yells. The minute you stop and show the slightest bit of vulnerability, they will be all over you. I picked a random taxi and got in. I told him to go to the airport. This guy was crazy. He had American pop music cranked on the radio (though I’m sure he didn’t understand any of it), with subs in the trunk, and I clocked him at 160 km/h. The fact that it was 5 oclock in the morning made it twice as fun.
My flight was at 9:00am so I had to wait around in the airport. On the plane I sat next to a guy who’s been living in KL for 15 years. He originally came for business, but ended up staying, getting married, having children, and settling down there. When I got off the plane, I walked outside and to an employee. On impulse I said “sawatdee k..” and then it hit me that I wasn’t in Thailand anymore and I was back to square one with the language barrier. I got on a bus to KL. Sat next to a guy from Brunei and he told me all about the advantages of living in Brunei. Basically, Brunei citizenship is like gold. I say this from what I’ve heard from both him and from others.
KL was first settled by the Chinese for tin mining in the 1860s. Its original name was “Pengkalan Lumpur” which
translates to bundle of mud. Tin from KL was sold to America and Britain, both who become dependent on the country’s lightweight and durable metal for use in the industrial revolution. War broke out in Malaya in 1868 over the metal and Britain was called upon to help. Intially reluctant to intervene in Malaya’s politics, the British Empire agreed because of its desire for the tin. It was the beginning of Britain’s presence in Malaya. KL soon became a model city of British colonialism. In 1957 a communist insurgency pushed the British out and Malaya gained its independent. Malaya was renamed Malaysia in 1963.
Today Malaysia is a muslim country and has a large Chinese and Indian influence. My first impression of Malaysia was that it was very much cosmopolitan and clean. The first place in the city I explored was Little India. I had the taxi driver drop me off here and I talked with some of the locals before getting some delicious curry chicken and freshly baked Nan bread. Indian food is my favorite and it was a good change from the Thai food I eat in Chiang Mai everyday. I had a lengthy talk with one Pakistani shop owner about Islam and western misperceptions of it, how it is written about in western news.
The night before I left Payap I talked with two Malaysian students at PIH that were in Chiang Mai on a study tour or something, and they suggested with my short time in KL that I should plan to go to the national reservation, a jungle with a cool rope bridge. I didn’t look into it much but after wandering after getting to KL and realizing all the time I had on my hands till Monday when the embassy would open, I wanted something to do for the weekend. For this I referred to my Lonely Planet (thnx Kaitlin!). A Lonely Planet book is a necessity for traveling, I would be lost without it. Taman Negara was the name of the reservation, 4000 sq/k of pristine jungle with lots to do. I went right to the train station, figured out how to get to the bus station, found the one and only ticket window selling bus tickets to Jerantut (gateway city to Taman Negara) only to be told “bus full already” by the man behind the window. It was really disappointing, the last bus of the day to Jerantut, and although I was 30 minutes early, all the tickets had been sold. I really wanted to go and I was upset about this for the rest of the day, but now that I think about it I think it was a good thing I didn’t go because it would have been too rushed. I found a guesthouse in my book, close to Chinatown and the rest of the night life, and stayed there for the night.
I can’t imagine how much of a tourist I looked like walking alongside the road on Sunday morning with my big map of KL, overstuffed backpack, and a puzzled look on my face as I tried to navigate my way to the National Mosque. When I got there I was given a purple robe to wear over my clothes. In Islam men must cover their knees and I had shorts on. While I was having myself a look around, one of the mosque volunteers asked if I had free time. I sat down with him and we talked about Islam for two hours. Many other tourists came and went as we sat and talked. I talked with a

woman who was also a volunteer. There is no clergy in Islam. If the president or prime minister of a country comes to a mosque and is late for prayer, he sits in the back. He also told me that on Fridays the National Mosque swells to 15,000 people for prayer, with people even outside on the streets when room runs out. When it was time for afternoon prayer, all tourists had to leave. I walked across the street and haggled the price on some Malay food for lunch.
I went to the Islamic Arts Museum, which was just down the street from the mosque. Islamic art does not depict humans or animals because this could lead to idolatry, which is forbidden in Islam and written in the Quran. Instead, beautiful calligraphy is used on pottery and manuscripts among many other things. I think Arabic is one of the most beautiful scripts and going there just to see the calligraphy was worth it. Islamic artists express themselves through this calligraphy. Another form of Islamic art is Arabesque art, which is the use of geometrical patterns on the art. Shapes are repeatedly arranged to make beautiful patterns and designs. The museum had a big display of decorative art. I saw carpets, manuscripts, woodwork and metalwork, and woven textiles, things that you could decorate your home with. There were also scaled models of mosques from all over the world, which was awesome. This museum is a must for anyone passing through Kuala Lumpur.
I went back to the Golden Triangle area of town to look for a good guesthouse. Right next to the Taj Mahol Hotel
was a small hostel called Bedz KL. In front was a table and a group of young people were sitting with a Malay man. One of the guys said it had the best showers. He was right! I don’t know how to explain it but the shower inside was just awesome, cool would be a better word for it. From the outside the hostel looked basic, but inside was very clean, the rooms were dorms with 14 people in each room, bunk beds, tv and computers downstairs, and the owner was just a cool guy. This place was a good pick and only 30 Ringgit/night ($10). Later that night I walked into town to see a movie. I chose at random – Taken. And that too was a good pick, the movie was badass and I highly recommend it.
The next day I woke up early, packed up all my stuff, and got a taxi to the embassy. Next stop was the Petronas Towers. I waved down a taxi and got in the front seat. I heard someone in the backseat, turned around, and
there was some guy. We started talking. He said he was a professor/hostage negotiator. We both got out at the towers. He took me into a bookstore and showed me his book, Hostage at the Table. The quote at the beginning of this entry is from the first chapter of the book. Definitely some powerful stories in that book. I got some lunch a Pakistani/North India/Bangladesh restaurant (see photo). Everybody working there was really nice. I had come the night before to eat so they remembered me. I got a taxi to the airport that ended up costing me 80 Ringgit. I sat next to a man from southern India on the way back to Bangkok. He was on his way to South Korea. I ended up having to spend the night in Bangkok and caught the Chiang Mai bus in the morning. For some reason the ride seemed three times as long on the way back, made it back around 9:00pm. So the trip was a success. I got what I went there for and made it back just in time for the Nan trip and for the ajarns not to kill me for being late.
